Layered Wedding Invitations: All About Adhesives

You’ve spent some serious change on wedding invitation printing. They’re beautiful! Maybe you want to add a backing layer to add some pizzazz, or perhaps you want to paste them on an enclosure. I’m willing to bet you don’t want to ruin them with the wrong adhesive. Read on for some very important tips that will help save you some tears and money.

Invitation Adhesive Don’ts
I can’t stress enough how important it is not to use anything water-based to adhere your invitations. In other words, NO GLUE! You don’t want anything that will be messy or will cause ripples on your gorgeous invitations. I also don’t recommend glue dots unless they are flat. The ones that are more tape-like are fine, but any glue dot that is raised at all will leave you with a bumpy effect that you don’t want. However, keep in mind that you want whatever you use to adhere them to be around the entire edge of the piece to avoid gaps. With glue dots, this could take a lot of product and a lot of time.

Lastly, do not use spray mount. I love the stuff, but if you’ve ever used it, you know it can be messy, and can often leave a film or residue on everything in a several feet radius, including your precious invitations.

Invitation Adhesive Do’s
To adhere your invitations to a backing layer or enclosure in a flat/non bumpy, secure way, I recommend two products:

Scotch Brand Double-Sided Tape

This tape is both flat and secure—once it is adhered it is not going anywhere. It won’t add any texture/bumpiness like glue dots, and it won’t ripple or ruin your invitations like water. There is no mess or residue left like spray mount.

To adhere, just apply the tape in four pieces all around the edge of the invitation and follow instructions below.

Scotch Brand Tape Roller

If you have a lot of invitations, it may be worth it to invest in the Scotch Brand Tape Roller. It gives the same nice effect as the double-sided tape above, but can make the process a lot quicker.

To adhere, just roll the tape around all four sides of the back of the invitation and follow instructions below.

Instructions for Adhering Invitations to Backs
Whether using double-sided tape or a tape roller, once you have your adhesive on all four sides of your invitation, hold it slightly above the backing layer and center it by sight (while still holding it in the air above the backing layer). Once you are satisfied it is positioned so the border looks even on all sides (I recommend invitations be sized .375″ smaller than your backs), press down and smoothe. Keep in mind, this is usually a one shot deal. It will likely ruin the invitation to pull it off and redo. That can be daunting, and you may need to practice a bit, but once you have gotten it down it really is fairly easy if you have a steady hand and a good eye.

Please note, the border on your layered invitation will never be 100% even— but don’t get crazy about it. I can assure you your guests will not be bringing out their ruler to check, and will likely never notice. Another thing to note, the larger your border (the greater the difference in size between the two pieces) the less noticeable a slightly off-center invitation will be. In other words, if your invitations aren’t centered perfectly on the backing layer, an 1/8″ border will be more obvious than a 1/4 inch border.


When to Ask Guests to Return Wedding RSVPs

I’ve gotten this question a few times recently, as people think ahead to their wedding invitations for their 2016 weddings: When should I ask people to respond by?

Customarily the return date is when your caterer or your venue needs their numbers in by, PLUS some time for you to call people who have not yet responded. MOST websites recommend two to three weeks. I recommend at LEAST three, especially if you are having a big wedding and anticipate having to track down a lot of non-responders.

I also recommend responses be requested by the 1st or the 15th of the month, where possible. I think it’s easier for people to remember to drop an RSVP into the mail that way. In addition, be sure to have the most accurate address list possible BEFORE sending invitations out to save postage and headaches. No matter what you do though, you will have people that don’t respond. It’s frustrating, for sure, and unfortunately part of the stress that is wedding planning!

In the end, you know your guests better than anyone and how responsive they’ll be. Whatever you do, I recommend erring on the side of leaving yourself as much time as possible.

When did you ask for your responses to be in by? Was it to late? Too early?

Winter Wedding Save the Date

This cold weather has gotten me in the mood for Winter weddings! Here I’ve used a mountain landscape watercolor background to announce the nuptials of Kristin and Mark. It is available as a flat card or postcard. Find it here on Enjoy!

Wedding Invitations: What is a backing layer?

Nothing screams luxury more than a thick, stiff invitation. Conversely, invitations that are thin and bend easily send a message of poor quality and may reflect to the invitation recipient that the event will also be sub par. Thick cover stock is one way to achieve a luxurious feel. Another is to add a backing layer to the invitation.

A backing layer is a piece of cardstock adhered to the invitation itself. The backing layer is slightly larger than the invitation so it adds a border to the piece, creating an opportunity for an additional touch of color.

My favorite cardstock to use for a backing layer is Stardream metallic. Their 105 lb. stock can be purchased precut via or, among others. I recommend the backing layer be sized .375″ greater than the invitation itself. For a 5″x7″ standard invitation for example, the backing layer would be 5″x7″ and the invitation would be 4.625″x 6.625″. This will achieve a .1875″ border all around the edge of the invitation.

The invitation pictured above was digitally printed on 100 lb. matte cover stock. It is adhered to a Stardream 105 lb. lapis lazuli (metallic navy blue) backing layer. The accompanying envelopes are Stardream Antique Gold.

The Skinny on Paper Weights

Clients ask me this a lot: what is the best paper weight for my invitations? I recommend 100 lb. cover stock (also called card stock – the terms are interchangeable) or higher (higher means heavier aka thicker). BUT! There are some caveats:

DIY From Your Home Printer
If you’re printing at home with your trusty inkjet printer, check your manual to see what paper weight your printer can withstand. A lot of the basic models can do no more than 100 lb. Some can’t print anything higher than 80 lb. Some can do heavier but only with certain settings. It’s important to check this out before investing in your paper. You don’t want to be printing your invitations at 12 o’clock at night only to discover that the cardstock you bought is jamming your printer like crazy and 200 invitations have to be hand-fed through your machine one by one to get it to work (or worse, it doesn’t work at all).

Professional Printing: Brick & Mortar
Whether you’re printing through Fedex Kinko’s, or a local mom and pop, be sure to check with them first to see what paper weight their machines can handle. 130 lb. cover stock is a very nice weight. But if their machine is going to turn it into origami with accompany choking sounds, it’s good to know that ahead of time.

Professional Printing: Online
This is pretty much a no-brainer, because the printer vendor is only going to offer what they know will work with their equipment. It’s worth it to do some digging on their site (or to place a quick call) to find out what weight paper they use. Sometimes this information is hidden, usually if it’s not anything to brag about. An 80 lb. cover stock is going to bend a lot more than a 130 lb. cover stock. It will also cost less (and then the bargain you thought you were getting on printing may not end up being a bargain at all. In other words, when you’re comparison shopping printers, be sure to factor the weight of the paper to determine the quality you’re getting for the price). The more high-end you want your wedding invitations to feel, the higher the paper weight you should go with.

Add A Backing Layer
If you know ahead of time that you’re going to add a backing layer to your invitations (or if you’re going to adhere your invitation to an enclosure), save yourself some money and stick with 80 lb.cover stock for the invitation. There’s no need for a thick invitation card in this case when the backing layer will more than likely be over 100 lb. itself (the Stardream brand, for example, is 105 lb.), making the total weight of the piece more than substantial enough. Adding a backing layer is also a nice option if your printer will not handle more than an 80 lb. cover stock but your aim is for a thicker invitation. You still may want to use a higher weight cover stock with your inserts (most people do not use backs for inserts) if paper weight is important to you.

Honour vs. Honor and Favor vs. Favour

“The honor of your presence” and “the favor of your reply” are common phrases used in wedding invitations. Depending on what example you’re running across on Pinterest, you may see invitations with “honor” and “favor” spelled “honour” and “favour.” Which version is correct?

Actually, they both are – depending on where you live. Some people incorrectly assume the addition of the “u” makes the invitation fancier, when in actuality it’s just how people from non-U.S., English speaking countries (England, Australia and Canada, to name a few) spell “honor” and “favor.” If you’re American “honor” and “favor” are correct, however, it’s perfectly fine to use the British spelling if you prefer (it’s your wedding after all!), but be sure to be consistent and use the same form with both words. Also, remember, honor (or honour) is technically reserved for those weddings to be held in a church (if your plan is to follow wedding etiquette).

Do me a favour and share this post, would you? I’d be honoured!

Envelope Talk: What’s Standard?

MOST invitations are 5″ x 7″, which will fit a standard A7 envelope. This is the easiest envelope to find on the market either online or in store. Another invitation size, although not as common, is 8.5″ x 5.5″, which fits an A8 envelope. A8 envelopes are also called “carrier” envelopes because they are sometimes used as outer envelopes for wedding invitations (with the A7 envelope becoming the “inner” envelope).

Response Cards
MOST people use A1 envelopes for their response cards. The dimensions of the response card itself should be 4.875″ x 3.375″. One nice thing about this size card is it can be printed four per 8.5″ x 11″ page (saves on printing costs). An alternate size for response card envelopes is A2, with the dimensions of the card itself measuring 5.5″ x 4.25″.

Two Wedding Invitation Trends: Floral & Watercolor

I’m excited to showcase my newest modern floral wedding invitation design now selling at This invitation combines two popular design elements right now: florals and watercolor artwork. Like all of my invitations, this design is available for menus, thank you notes, placecards, table numbers, and programs (as well as anything else you might need). Enjoy!

DIY Wedding Invitations: 20 Ways to Cut Costs

Here are just some of the ways you can save big money when DIY’ing wedding invitations:

  1. Skip the calligrapher and hand write or use labels for addresses.
  2. Purchase professionally-designed digital files and print at home or through a professional printer.
  3. Ditch the response card envelope and use a postcard instead to save on postage and envelope costs.
  4. Skip the response card and have guests RSVP online via your wedding website. Provide website information on the invitation itself instead of an additional insert.
  5. Forget the map – with GPS readily available, maps are no longer needed.
  6. Put extra information like accommodations, transportation, and directions, on a wedding website and direct guests there.
  7. Comparison shop printer prices. Online is often cheaper but it’s sometimes better to use a brick and mortar store where you can look at paper choices and inspect a hard copy proof.
  8. When using for printing, be sure to hit up for coupon codes and links to make sure you’re getting VP’s best price.
  9. Shop, and other online retailers for inexpensive envelopes.
  10. List reception information on the invitation itself instead of printing an additional card.
  11. Skip tissue and inner envelopes – they’re outdated, not green, and rarely used anymore.
  12. Compare prices for printing two pieces (example: an invitation and a reception card) vs. having information printed on the back of the invitation.
  13. Print single-sided and forego a design on the back of the invitation.
  14. Print in black and white.
  15. When using a professional printer, use the paper they have in stock vs. buying and bringing in your own ream (then you are only paying for what you use).
  16. Forego envelope liners.
  17. Skip backs, enclosures and other pockets.
  18. When printing professionally, choose digital printing over letterpress, foil printing or offset printing.
  19. Have a friend proofread your invitation pieces to avoid the need to reprint.
  20. Avoid square invitations which require more postage.